My husband’s grand parents are still alive and they live in the country. They are a stubborn lot, never budge from their stand and never listen to rational arguments. I am sometimes irritated, why they are making life difficult for everybody. Let me explain to you. My husband’s grandfather has been a invalid for the last eighteen years. He was bedridden due to an accident. My husband’s grand mother looks after him and both live near their second son’s house. All the years of relentless looking after and the age have taken a toll on granny and she is constantly in and out of hospital now a days. We have suggested a number of times that they move with our in-laws, but they are adamant that they won’t leave their ancestral home, come what may. The other alternative is to hire a nurse to look after them. I have been searching adult daycare reviews to find a viable solution. Why do old people have to behave the way they do? Will I be like that, when I grow old?