Writers’ Paradise

Here are just a few examples of the possible long-term consequences of ignoring bullying behavior. Victims are more likely to: -under-achieve because their self-esteem has been knocked and energy is being wasted on negative emotions such as resentment, guilt and fear. - suffer physical symptoms of stress such as headaches, sickness, muscle tension - turn their anger inwards and become depressed and cynical - avoid or cope badly in situations where they meet figures of authority - over-conform - become well-practised at hiding their true feelings and therefore less able to have satisfying intimate relationships - hide their talent for fear of creating envy in others - become reclusive and eventually lonely - develop a belief that there is little point in fighting any kind of injustice - become bullies themselves Bullies are likely to: - continue bullying throughout their life - eventually become lonely and socially ostracized - suffer low self-esteem and inner angst in spite of any external signs to the contrary - become depressed and cynical about the world and act in accordance with these beliefs - turn to criminality - become more angry and/or disillusioned and consequently a serious danger to themselves and to others

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